Personal Context & Goals¶
Background and constraints that shape the whole trip — kept here so any planning decision can be checked against why this trip matters, not just logistics.
Where I'm coming from¶
- Based in London (Rotherhite). Italian and English citizenship.
- Travelling to Colombia for a friend's wedding — see Itinerary for the full route and dates.
- Flight to Colombia: 18 August, staying about 2 weeks.
Personality & preferences
- Very shy, especially about dancing in public — but motivated to improve. This is the main throughline of the trip; see Dance opportunities.
- Historically no emotional connection to South America; interest is growing through music and dancing (Cuban salsa, Cali style).
- Used to be religious (Catholic), now openly against it — feels uncomfortable in religious group contexts (e.g. group prayers before meals). This affects how I'm navigating one specific travel group — see Social & messaging.
- Dislikes heavy car traffic and chaotic big-city driving, but accepts it's a constraint in South America.
- Loves historical sites, but dislikes over-touristed "bucket-list" venues (e.g. Machu Picchu-style staged tourism).
Goals for this trip¶
- Feel safe and reasonably organised.
- Build an emotional connection to Colombia through dance + nice places, not ticking tourist boxes.
- Use the trip as a mini "dance retreat": become more confident dancing in public, especially in Cali salsa style — see Dance opportunities.
- See some historic towns and nature (coffee region, Andean/colonial towns, possibly Caribbean coast) — see Itinerary.
See also: Mindset for the trip · Itinerary · Dance opportunities