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Personal Context & Goals

Background and constraints that shape the whole trip — kept here so any planning decision can be checked against why this trip matters, not just logistics.

Where I'm coming from

  • Based in London (Rotherhite). Italian and English citizenship.
  • Travelling to Colombia for a friend's wedding — see Itinerary for the full route and dates.
  • Flight to Colombia: 18 August, staying about 2 weeks.
Personality & preferences
  • Very shy, especially about dancing in public — but motivated to improve. This is the main throughline of the trip; see Dance opportunities.
  • Historically no emotional connection to South America; interest is growing through music and dancing (Cuban salsa, Cali style).
  • Used to be religious (Catholic), now openly against it — feels uncomfortable in religious group contexts (e.g. group prayers before meals). This affects how I'm navigating one specific travel group — see Social & messaging.
  • Dislikes heavy car traffic and chaotic big-city driving, but accepts it's a constraint in South America.
  • Loves historical sites, but dislikes over-touristed "bucket-list" venues (e.g. Machu Picchu-style staged tourism).

Goals for this trip

  • Feel safe and reasonably organised.
  • Build an emotional connection to Colombia through dance + nice places, not ticking tourist boxes.
  • Use the trip as a mini "dance retreat": become more confident dancing in public, especially in Cali salsa style — see Dance opportunities.
  • See some historic towns and nature (coffee region, Andean/colonial towns, possibly Caribbean coast) — see Itinerary.

See also: Mindset for the trip · Itinerary · Dance opportunities